You Only Live Once

This phrase is so often taken to the extreme:

 

Life is short, this is the only one there is. So let's do something stupid and crazy because who really wants to grow old anyway?

 

Really?

 

Since I have started looking inward and getting in deeper connection with my Creator I have a different view.

 

The heartache of the last month has made me aware...

 

We only have one life...

 

Enjoy that cup of tea.

Read a book with your daughter.

Star gaze with your son.

Wake up early and watch the sun rise.

Hold the hand of your love.

Read or maybe even write that novel.

Grab a canvas and a paintbrush and see what happens.

Listen to a cat purr.

Throw a ball for your dog.

Take that walk.

Really listen to that music...take it in.

Smell that rose.

Color...in a coloring book...with crayons. Preferably with a 3 year old at your side.

 

Hug your loved ones and tell them you love them because you never know when it will be for the last time.

 

Yes, we only have one life, shouldn't that be enough?

 

I intend to enjoy every minute of it...even the small things.

 

Because if you are fully enjoying life.. the small things aren't really small at all...they may just be some of the most profound moments of your life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



A Beginning

"There are years the ask questions and years that answer."

~ Zora Neale Hurston

Walking beside Central Park

I have this book. I have had it for almost exactly two years. It is a book that I had heard about many years before.

I remember the day I discovered it in a second-hand store while shopping with my mom and the children...

My life was turbulent to say the least.

I felt lost and disconnected with myself and those who are most precious to me. 

Then I found the book. 

                                    Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy

I was ecstatic!  It was only $2... a blessing for me at the time.

I brought it home and dove in, determining to start at January 1 and catch up to the current date...

But this book isn't meant to be powered through... as I quickly discovered. My heart and soul didn't want to be quickly changed. As much as I wanted to find my "authentic self" as the author describes, It can't be done in a couple days. 

Or a couple weeks. 

So I set it reluctantly aside and determined to start it on January 1... which is how the book is written.

Since then I have made several attempts to start the book "right". I will read for a couple days and then miss some so then I have to read a couple extra passages to catch up... Or, like this year, it got packed up because of circumstances beyond my control and I only recently unearthed it.

So I have decided that I am not going to stress about catching up, I am not going to just jump in to the middle either and ignore all the lessons that came before...

I am going to start right now, with January 1. 

Who says my new year has to be with the calendar? All sorts of celebrations mark their beginning at different times of the year. Birthdays, anniversaries, quitting a destructive addiction... 

They all mark a new year.

So this is my new year.

I am starting with January 1.

I can't wait to see where it takes me....

"And now let us welcome the New Year

Full of things that have never been."

~Rainer Maria Rilke

Why I Started My Journey

I am passionate about my family. I want only what is best for them. I started my Melaleuca journey because I am concerned about the products that I use to clean my home. I cannot use many commercial cleaners and do not feel they are safe for my family or the environment.

That is what first caught my attention. Then I heard about the business... I can share these wonderful products, and in sharing I can build something that will improve the lives of those I contact. 

I do not share Melaleuca t make money, that is not my goal. I share Melaleuca because I care about people and their health. I am in school for holistic healthcare because I care about people and their health.

Melaleuca also offers a way for me to provide for my family and remove some of the stress of financial responsibility from my hard working husband. 

I am willing to share Melaleuca with whoever will listen. I do not believe in a "sales pitch". I am never any good with them. 

Watch the video.

 Check out this link.  

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Make an informed decision, just because it is right for me doesn't mean it is right for you. But you owe it to yourself to at least check it out.

Blessings

What Is On My Radar Today?

Sometimes life is crazy... Anyone else feel that way?

I started a new 8 week block of classes this week, it is VBS at our church, I started a business, my husband and I are taking the first steps to clean up our finances...

CRAZY!

But, I am holding tight, doing what i must to keep the plates spinning for the good of my family and our future. 

The school will eventually end and I can start a career guiding people through their healing path.

Vacation Bible School is 4 days. My children will make friends and receive valuable tools that will carry them through the rest of their lives. 

With hard work and diligence I will build a lasting financial foundation that will carry my future generations to impact the world for good and hopefully improve the lives of those they touch.

Isn't that what we all really want? To make an impact on our world... leave our mark? 

On my radar today? 

First and formost I am staying in touch with my Creator and listening for His direction.

Laundry...and lots of it!

Reading with and generally enjoying the blessings that are my three children. Each one is unique and a delight!

Being the support and help that my husband needs by "holding down the fort". I keep his castle running smoothly so he doesn't have to worry while he is out conquering the world.

Build relationships in my business that will be lasting, not only financially but relationally as well. I am not looking to get rich... I am looking to help people achieve their goals in their health and the health of their families in whatever form that is for them.

Buy doing so, I know that in my small way I will leave a mark on the world. Even something as humble as laundry and clean dishes makes a mark. If you leave a lasting and comforting impression on those closest to you, your family, how much stronger are they to go out and leave their mark on the world?   

Just some thoughts as I get ready to go forth and conquer my day.

Blessings

The Vitamins I Use And Why

This video was posted on Melaleuca's YouTube Page almost 4 years ago. It is a news clip about the launch of the patented Oligo delivery system that Melaleuca uses in their vitamins.

I have an issue absorbing the necessary nutrients I need from the foods I eat. In order to supplement with vitamins from the drug store or even the health food store I typically have to take 2-3x what the bottle says I need! The only supplement brand I have ever used successfully was during my teen years and was supplied through the holistic doctor I was seeing at the time. 

Since then I have "made do" with whatever I could afford, knowing that they really weren't doing me any good but hoping anyway.

Then I discovered Melaleuca's Vitality Pack with the patented Oligo delivery system! These vitamins have made all the difference for me.

Why are vitamins and minerals called "essential"? 

Because they:

! Build the skeleton and all soft tissue!

!Regulate the body including heartbeats, blood clotting, nerve response and more!

!Are critical links for thousands of functions in your body!

!They are the components of antioxidant enzymes that neutralize the damage of free redicals!

 Some my ask...

 "Can't I just get my vitamins from my food? I eat a lot of fruits and vegetables."

Here's the truth:

Most produce you buy in the store has been picked while still green, before it can finish developing all the vitamins it should contain.

It has been stored and transported... sometimes thousands of miles to get to the store.

If it is processed, most of the nutrients have been destroyed before it even gets to you!  

But I take vitamins already...

  The minerals in traditional multivitamins are isolated, which makes them difficult for your body to absorb. Not only that, but isolated minerals cause an increase in free radicals. Those free radicals use up the vitamins in your supplement before you even have a chance to absorb it!!

The Oligo delivery system that Melaleuca uses keeps the mineral bound in a protective coating of proteins and fiber, just like it in nature. This system keeps the minerals soluble so your body can absorb them, which in turn makes it easier to absorb the vitamins because they aren't getting destroyed by free radicals from the minerals.

 

 

Oligo Technology Protects Antioxidant Vitamins up to 5 times better than Store Brands!

Vitamins and minerals are essential for a vibrant life, better health and more energy.

I know for me, when I take just the basic Vitality Pack, which is the multivitamin and calcium supplements, I have the energy and focus to get done all that is demanded of me in a day. When I miss a day... I can feel it!

I am a mom to three high energy children, I am a wife, I have a home to run. That alone is a full time job... but I am also a student in school 3 nights a week and most weekends working on a degree in holistic healthcare. And I am a budding business owner.

My days are full! My nights are even fuller!! 

Taking the vitamins and other supplements that Melaleuca offers makes all the difference for me.

If you are curious click here and explore. If you have any questions you can either click on the contact tab at the top of the site or e-mail me directly at theashlandmanor@gmail.com.

I hope I have sparked your  interest and gotten you thinking about your health.

Blessings

Business Opportunity

I posted this to my other blog.


Let me start by saying this: I am not a "get rich quick" kind of gal. Nothing can or should can be achieved without hard work. I do not promote a product or a business unless I 100% believe in the company.

That being said, I was told yesterday of a wonderful opportunity with a company that I have had previous experience with...

For the month of May, Melaleuca is offering a special promotion:

Sign up 8 customers and receive a bonus of $1000... yep!

This is a company that I was introduced to more than 2 years ago and was a faithful customer for about 18 months. I LOVE the products and how the company is run and their focus on helping families achieve their goals.

I am going to be honest here... As much as I love the products, I did not promote the business side for one simple reason... because I didn't believe I could.

Since then I have renewed a friendship with someone who proves that what you set your mind to you can achieve... and don't take no for an answer!

This person is crazy, faces life head on, and acknowledges no obstacles... only ways to overcome them.

She is good at pulling me out of the comfort zone of my mind and helping me to realize that life doesn't have to stay where it is at. If you don't like where you are at or something isn't working for you, change it!

So, with this renewed sense of direction I am going to jump out on a limb here... Come this Saturday, May 25, I would like to rejoin Melaleuca with at least 8 people who want to change their way of looking at life.

The beauty of this company is that it is internet based. You don't have to have an inventory, you don't have to do parties(unless you want to), you don't even have to talk to anyone face to face(unless you want)!

I have heard of at least one mom who makes a living from her family, has customers and team members all over the country, and has never left her home! She markets on-line and on the phone.

Check out this page Melaleuca On A Mission

Watch the videos, do some research. This is a solid company with a solid financial history and a mission to help families.

I have tried many different products for cleaning my house and taking care of my families health needs. I can honestly say that Melaleuca, hands down, gets my seal of approval.

Their cleaning products are concentrated so you use less. The spray cleaners are refillable with each refill making anywhere from 2-6 bottles of spray so you are not being charged for the water in your product! Their vitamins are the most effective ones I have taken besides the line a doctor prescribed to me when I was a teen. All of their products are nontoxic, safe for your home and the environment. They have a line of sports nutrition that is the best I have ever used. Weight-loss aids, first-aid supplies, makeup, snacks... you name it they have it!

This coming Sunday celebrates 13 years of marriage to my wonderful husband. I would love to celebrate that milestone by securing the financial future for us and our children.

Do you know 8 people who are concerned about the health of their families, the safety of their cleaning supplies, and the quality of their nutrition and vitamins? Would they like to make extra money knowing that the products they are sharing are safe, effective and checking account friendly?

If you are interested you can e-mail me at theashlandmanor@gmail.com
I will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

We have until May 31 to get everyone in on this promotion. Will you join me?

The Imperfect Way To: Build a Pallet Garden

Just about every morning, before I get out of bed, I check in with my self. I ask me what I need to do to nurture me today... I always answer with something different... A pedicure... an aromatherapy bath... yoga... chocolate...

Today... I answered with gardening... some time spent grounding myself by burying my hands in the ground.

I have had this old pallet sitting in my back yard for almost a year now. I knew I wanted to make a pallet garden I just wasn't sure how... Then it got to hot... then it got to cold... then it rained...

Now it is the first week in April and I have almost missed the Spring planting time for my arid climate! 

Even though there are about 75 other things I could be doing... I took myself out the back door to soak up some vitamin D and set up my garden!

Mavis over at One Hundred Dollars a Month has a wonderful pallet garden tutorial here and a vertical pallet garden tutorial here... she is my hero...

Anyway... I have this old pallet...

Materials you will need:

A pallet

Something to back your pallet with

Scissors

Staple gun

Staples

Garden soil

Seeds

Water

I don't have any garden fabric... Which is recommended... and getting some is not in the budget... so I am improvising! I am using a double layer of plastic sheeting that we bought to mask off areas during our construction.

Take your backing of choice and staple it really good to the back of your pallet... I meant to take pictures of it all stapled but was to excited... forgive me?

 

 

I bought this bag of organic soil at my local Home Depot. It is a 3 cubic feet bag and cost under $8.00 

 

Cut a hole in the top of the bag and dump it in!

(You can plant right in the bag... a topic for future gardening fun..)

 

Here it is with all the soil smoothed out. You have to be sure and push the dirt under the rungs of your pallet... The roots of your plants will need to spread more sideways than normal so you want to be sure to have the soil even.

 

Here is what I planted:

In the very back section:

Snap peas

Tomatoes

The first narrow row:

Bell peppers

The next narrow row:

Celery

The front wide section:

Onion sets

Spinach

 Calendula

I am taking a chance with the celery and spinach... I am late in planting them... But gardening should be a fun case of trial and error! 

My plan is for the peas to grow up the side of the chicken coup and the calendula will act as a shade for the spinach. 

I will need to water this probably twice a day. It is shallow and the sun just sucks the moisture out of everything around here!

Now... we wait and see what develops...